SO i twisted my neck at yoga practice yesterday and on top of that I’ve got
a mean fever too from biking in the rain/snow… BUT bed days are alright when you have the right care coming to you.. mmhmm! Bed monsters O Yes!
Me (long hair) and my budd ryan at a friends wedding,
he is far away on a summer island and all i want to do is go long boarding with him right now..
pic by jenny bun
The will to change by Bell Hooks
Psychological patriarchy is the dynamic between those qualities deemed “masculine” and “feminine” in which half of our human traits are exalted while the other half is devalued. Both men and women participate in this tortured value system. Psychological patriarchy is a “dance of contempt,” a perverse form of connection that replaces true intimacy with complex, covert layers of dominance and submission, collusion and manipulation. It is the unacknowledged paradigm of relationships that has suffused western civilization generation after generation, deforming both sexes, and destroying the passionate bond between them.
Bell Hooks!!!
yeah, my dear friend turned me on to bell hooks, i started with all about love and now im half way through the will to change(men masculinity and love) next up feminism is for everybody! And everyone should read these books, you and the people around u will benefit from the reads»> mmm hmmm!
The end of manhood
Men can honor their own self-hood only through loving justice.Justice between people is perhaps the most important connection people can have.Loving justice for themselves and others enables men to brake the chokehold of patriarchal masculinity.
Stoltenberg
